Introduction
2 Face it guys, times have changed. Women are striving to be more assertive and independent, and they are constantly changing their dating goals. Some women remain traditional, with the hopes of finding one guy to have a romantic relationship with. But many women are looking for a man to share a short, passionate affair. With this in mind, we have to follow and understand their changing style of courtship: signals, techniques, and even body language. We have to learn how to understand women so we will know what they are communicating to us. If you want to succeed in meeting and dating new and exciting women, you must be able to interact, talk, and flirt with women on their level. This book is designed to help you learn this process by providing the knowledge, techniques and skills required for dating success. Whether you are looking for a long-term romance or a one-night stand, this book will guide you through and make meeting, dating and seducing women easier and more fun! One thing every man must understand is that women think differently. Women say they want to be treated as equals. We have all seen the feminists in action, fighting for one thing or another trying to equate themselves to men. What they dont understand is that we could treat a woman equally - just like another guy - but it wouldn't satisfy her. Women still want to be romanced and treated with respect. Women say one thing, but expect another. They want to be paid equally, but they want men to pay for dinner. As men we know how rough dating actually is, and it seems no one is willing to make it easier for us. Until now! This bible of knowledge will guide you through the dating process to ensure success with women! Did you know that even if you are both thinking the same thing, it is a proven fact that communication between the two sexes lacks clarity? Men and women each have a different process of courtship the other may not understand. Signals, and even words used, may not be recognized or even understood. We need to figure out how to read women so we know what they are thinking.Women are sending messages to men all the time - we just aren't getting them! This is why understanding a woman is very important. Are you thinking: How will I ever learn how a woman thinks? I bet you are, because so was I when I started this book. I was shocked to find that most women were responsive to my research! Women want us to figure them out! They were quick to tell me what men do wrong when relating to women, and how rare it is to find a man who can understand how women think and communicate. This book will open your eyes to opportunities you ave never seen before, and you'll soon be equipped with the knowledge to take full advantage of these opportunities! By following the suggestions in this book, you will become a man that women want to date. You will be able to choose the women you spend your efforts on. You are likely change your appearance and your behavior in an effort to look and act how women want. Your changes will influence all aspects of your life - your work, your social life, and especially your success with women! But before we go any further, you have to make a commitment to wanting success with women. You have to be willing to put in the time, effort, or money. You have to accept that you will change through the process. Don't make excuses for previous failures - just chalk it up to experience and admit that you need practice! Pretty soon you will realize just how easy meeting and picking up women can be. While reading this book, you will learn more about yourself and what you want, then use this information to target your desired type of woman. You will soon know what to do, and what not to do, for success with women. You will learn how to flirt successfully and create sexual chemistry with complete strangers. If you read this book, cover to cover, you will be able to get the kind of short-term and long-term relations with women you crave - whether it be purely sexual or emotionally fulfilling. No doubt, this book will be the best book you will ever purchase to help you pick up all the women you want! 3 Turn the pages to learn the Who, What, Where and How of meeting, approaching, talking to and seducing women in the twenty-first century. Chapter 1: Initiate, Educate, Perservere Let's cut to the chase. For a man to succeed with women, he must be able to initiate communication with a woman. The secret behind success in meeting, approaching, talking to, and seducing women in the twenty-first century is the ability to INITIATE! Get out there and make the effort. This may sound easy enough, but it isn't. Many of you already know how hard it can be to approach a woman. This chapter explains why it is so important to take the initiative and learn from your mistakes. With this book, you will learn the ways of women, what attracts them, and what discourages them! Educating yourself is extremely important for success with women. You will soon know how to read women, how to approach women and how to talk to women in order to get them interested in being with you. You will also learn more about yourself, and how your mind helps you attain goals. You will practice meeting women, you will talk to them, and you will undoubtedly face rejection, especially in the beginning. You must persevere through failure and rejection and continue to experiment and initiate! You will realize that each failure can only lead to greater success! Initiate Chances are, women won't arbitrarily flirt with you on the street. They won't offer their bodies to you. They won't approach you and ask for your number. You have to initiate meeting women. Once you meet a woman she will decide if she wants to further the relationship. If you exchange numbers, you still must initiate. Call her. Don't wait for her to call you. Initiating contact with the opposite sex is the key to success with women. You have to get out there and actively pursue women. Meet and date as many women as you can. Even if you decide not to date the women you meet, you will gain valuable experience just by taking the initiative to approach them. The ability to approach women comes with practice and also confidence. The better you feel about yourself, the more women will respond to you. Your behavior can be a direct suggestion of your level of confidence. You may need to build up your self-esteem in order to feel confident communicating with women. A man with high self-esteem will confidently walk right up to the most beautiful woman in the room and start talking to her. However, a man who is not sure of himself will be unsuccessful in achieving his goal of meeting and seducing the woman of his dreams. Which guy do you want to be? If you don’t feel good about yourself, or you know of areas you could improve, take a trip to the nearest library or bookstore. Pick up a couple of books on how to improve your self-image. You should recognize and try to improve your weaknesses thereby lowering the possibility of rejection. The next chapter may help you identify areas for improvement. Educate 4 You need to educate yourself on both women and men, and how their minds work. The more you know about women, the better your chances are for success. If you know how women think, and what they want, then you have the power to respond and behave in ways that will attract any woman. By creating an image that women want you will attract the women you desire. This book will teach you everything you need to know about women, including what they like to see and hear, and how they want to be treated.Consider this book your new Bible. But knowing women is only half the battle…you also need to know how men think. Yeah, you heard me right – you need to know how your own mind works. We all have conscious thoughts, and make conscious decisions every day. But there is also our subconscious to consider. When we set goals, our subconscious keeps track of these goals, and influences the results in our conscious mind. When we encounter fears or rejection, our subconscious deals with these obstacles and adjusts our conscious mind accordingly. We are able to keep our goals in focus through changes made in the subconscious mind. When you make mistakes, or face obstacles, your subconscious mind chalks these things up to experience and expects that you will continue to pursue your goals. And that is just what you need to do - learn from your mistakes and move on. For our purposes, you must always keep your goals in mind, and continue towards them with relentless enthusiasm. Persevere As you begin your journey into the world of dating you will still be learning approach techniques and you should try to figure out what works best for you. This means trying the techniques in this book, and adapting them to your personal style. You will no doubt make changes in your appearance an your behavior to become more successful with women. Some things you will learn the easy way, and others you will learn the hard way. However, before you develop your best approach, you must be prepared for rejection. Everything takes practice. Don't expect immediate success without failure. Every man experiences rejection; it is part of the entire process. Hell, it is part of life! Every failure leads to a greater success. Remember: the more practiced you are at approaching and meeting women, the more confident you will become. This ultimately leads to a higher success rate with women! Don't get discouraged if you get shut down – consider it her loss. With each rejection, you have to be able to regroup, move on, and apply the lessons learned. You will learn your dating goals in Chapter 2. These goals will be the basis for your dating strategies. Visualize your goals and make it your priority to meet these goals. Chapter 2: Who You Are And Who You Want You deserve the best woman out there for you. If you are like most guys I know, you don't have her yet. This means You Need a Plan. You may need a plan to find a woman, to improve your current girlfriend, or |
