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TIP #2 - Convince the girl that she is more interested in you, than
you are in her.
Example: End the date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are
now having a bite to eat at a restaurant. Instead of letting the date
drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home,
maintain control of the evening. While the conversation is still
good, while the date is still going well, announce that it's getting
late and it's time to go. Tell her that you enjoyed the evening and
that you are looking forward to getting together again.
This is going to surprise her, since every other guy thinks, that by
some miracle, if he hangs on long enough that maybe he'll convince her
to have sex with him. If a girl wants to have sex with you, she will
let you know. So if you haven't gotten these vibes, end the date
while it's still going well. You'll set yourself apart from the other
guys she's used to. You demonstrate that you are not easy to get.
Example: Don't rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if
you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. The
first example in this section of ending a date before she does, is a
great way to accomplish this. Also, if the mood, the time, the place
isn't right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don't try kissing
her for the first time. If she's interested, the time and place will
come. But, by pushing it, you risk blowing an important event, you
risk coming off as being desperate for action and worst of all, you
risk appearing inexperienced and inept. Don't be afraid to wait until
the time is right.
Example: Don't always be available to do something with her. You have
called a girl and asked her to go to a movie on Tuesday and she
declines. Don't say, "Well, how about Wednesday?" or "What day can
you make it?" Simply say, "That's too bad you can't make it. Maybe
some other time. Talk to you later."
Hygiene & Body Image
Poor hygiene will really turn a single woman off or any person for
that matter. Keep your hair and teeth clean and your breath fresh.
Be sure and bathe, wear good cologne, and wear a good deodorant.
Don't forget to shave either. Be aware that facial hair will make you
look older. Also, most single women are not attracted to beards. If
you insist on wearing a beard, keep it neatly trimmed.
If you are going bald or have a receding hairline, don't try to
disguise it by combing it a certain way. This makes you look silly.
Women are not going to judge you because of your lack of hair. If
you're getting thin on top, just cut your hair short all over. This
will give you the appearance of having more hair.
Another word about hair. If you have a chest or back like a hairy
gorilla, trim it. Too much hair turns off the majority of women. A
word about gray or graying hair. This can attract single women like a
magnet, provided that you have a slender body to match it. If you're
overweight, she will see you as just a fat old man, which will be a
turn off and don't die your hair either because this is not good for
your image either.
If you are an older man, wear your hair short. It will make you look
younger. Study the models in the magazines for some nice hairstyle
ideas. Finally, it won't hurt to have a nice tan either. Women love
the beach, so it will certainly help for you to have that tanned
beach-hunk look.
How to Talk to Single Women when on a Date
When you're out on your first date with a single woman, it's quite
natural to ask questions to get to know her better. However, there's
an art to asking questions and I will teach you how.
Here's what not to do, which will make a bad impression on your date.
Whatever you do, don't ask one question after another. This will make
her feel like she is being interrogated or interviewed for a job.
The best way to ask questions is to let her answer, then add
additional comments and conversation around her answer. In other
words, make her answer a topic of conversation. Then you can weave in
some more questions using the same technique.
Using this technique will be non-threatening and not so obtrusive.
Plus, she will admire your conversational skills by you expressing
interest in her answers.
How to Win the Hearts of Single Women Using Poetry
I know what you may be thinking. Poetry is for wimps. All women in
general love poetry and one of the fastest ways to a woman's heart is
using poetry. I can assure you that if you use poetry on her she
won't think that you're a wimp. She will be impressed! Here are some
great poems to give to her to win her heart:
Poem #1 To: ____________(her name)
It takes the Sun and the Rain,
to make the flowers grow.
It takes the Moon and the Stars,
to make the Heavens glow.
It takes a wish, and lots of hard work
to make a Dream come true.
And to make my Life really happy,
it takes a "Sweet" and "Lovely" girl like you!
* This poem below is my personal favorite poem that worked best for me
on single women:
Poem #2 To:_____________(her name)
Some girls are nice,
Some girls are "Sweet,"
And some are "Dear as can be."
And once in a great while,
a girl like _____(her name) comes along,
Who happens to be "All Three!"
Poem #3 To:______________(her name)
You make me feel....
like something special,
because you are.
Poem #4 To:______________(her name)
I'll tell you my fantasy,
it's an evening for two,
anywhere...with you.
When I would meet women at bars and nightclubs and scored their phone
number, just before I would say goodbye I would write one of these
poems on a piece of paper right in front of her and give it to her.
Try it guys, this technique really leaves a lasting impression!
A Few Warning Signs for Potential Marriage Problems
I know you are single now, but at some point in your life most likely
you will get married or remarry. I wanted to pass along some valuable
advice to you before you take the plunge:
Guys, I just can't express to you how serious marriage is and your
choice of the right mate is critical to your happiness. I want you to
succeed in marriage and it's a wonderful feeling spending the rest of
you life with someone you love, get along with, and share common goals
and interests with.
This week I want to alert you to some warning signals to look for that
may potentially lead to a divorce, if you're planning on getting
married:
How do her parents treat each other? Do they disrespect each other
and are they always arguing and showing no love for each other? Our
personalities are influenced by our parents. The way her parents
treat each other can be an indicator of how she will treat you when
you're married. If it's negative, watch out!
Find out about her work history. If she has drifted from one job to
another, this could indicate she has a problem getting along with
others. And if she can't get along with others she might not be able
to get along with your friends and relatives, which can lead to
marital friction.
If you don't drink and are turned off by people who drink, don't marry
a woman who drinks a lot. This can cause major problems.
Does she have financial problems? Does she mismanage her money, in
debt, overspends and shops all the time with no thought whatsoever if
she can afford it? When you get married, things will be no different.
She will most likely be the same way financially. If you are frugal
and good with money, then money is going to be a major source of
conflict in your marriage.
Do her parents object to you getting married? If they do, then cool
it for awhile. Put off the wedding until they have your blessings.
I'm not trying to preach religion to you, but it's a known fact that
the family that prays together stays together. Sharing your religious
beliefs is a very strong foundation for a successful marriage
Top Ten Desirable Traits Single Women are Attracted to in Men
When doing research for my first book that I wrote called, "How to
Pick Up Women in Discos" I interviewed hundreds of single women about
what they look for in a man and personality traits that turn them on.
Here are the top ten that they told me:
1. Sense of humor.
2. Fun to be with.
3. Good conversationalist.
4. Intelligent.
5. Good dresser.
6. Good dancers.
7. Projects happiness (smiles a lot, laughs a lot, etc.).
8. Ambitious and knows where he is going in life and how to get
there.
9. Sober (nothing turns them off more than drunk guys hitting up on
them).
10. Guys that keep their hormones in check when they first meet you.
Women are very turned off by guys that act like a dog in heat that
make sexually suggestive remarks and paw at their bodies upon first
meeting them.
So, guys if you lack some of these desirable traits I would suggest
that you get busy and acquire these traits that turn single women on.
It will be to your advantage to succeed with women.
10 Top Reasons Single Women Rejected Your Voice Personal Reply
1. When you respond to a single woman's voice personal ad and you get
no response, do you ever wonder what went wrong? You feel like you
made a good recording on her voice mailbox and you never hear back
from her. You feel a little frustrated and rejected.
2. To help you figure out what went wrong, here are the Top 10
reasons she did not try to get in touch with you after hearing your
message in her voice mail box assigned by the personals publication:
3. Your message contained sexual overtones. This is a sure-fire way
to scare women off.
4. The tone of your voice was too soft when replying. The system
could not pick up your voice and cut you off. This caused your
message to not be recorded, thus, she can not respond to you if there
is no message.
5. Your voice turned her off. I'm sure you can relate to this. I'm
sure you've heard women's voices that get on your nerves.
6. Your message was way too long. You really dragged it out to the
point where it became monotonous and boring.
7. There was a long pause while making your message and the system
thought you were through and cut you off.
8. You used too much slang in your message such as "You know," "You
know what I mean," etc.
9. You stuttered and mumbled too much when making your message. This
is a big turn-off!
10. Your message was too short and only contained one or two
sentences such as "Hi my name is Don. Let's get together sometime and
have some fun. Call me at 484-2424."
If you used your cellular phone to make your message, it may have
faded out on you and the system did not pick up your message. In your
message, all you did was brag about yourself and your material
possessions. In other words you came across as stuck on yourself.
This is a big no no!
How to Succeed with Single Women When Fast-dancing at Nightclubs
Here are some great tips for that awkward moment when you have asked a
woman to fast-dance and the song is over.
So now this first song is coming to an end. When it ends don't
hesitate and look at her to see if she wants to dance to the next
record. Just turn away from her while continuing to dance and look at
her out of the corner of your eye to see what she is going to do. You
see, by hesitating at the end of a song, you force a direct
confrontation on whether to dance to the next song. If you just keep
on dancing into the next song, taking it for granted that she wants to
dance again, you'll be more successful in keeping her out on the dance
floor. The longer you dance with her the better your chances of
getting to know her.
Now we get to the part when you finish dancing. This will usually end
in these following ways:
1. She stops dancing and says, "Thank you."
2. You're both hot, sweaty, and exhausted from dancing and mutually
agree to leave the dance floor.
3. Either one of you develops a cramp and has to leave the dance
floor. Has this ever happen to you?
This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you
do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just
simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I
talk to you about something?" After this statement, she will say,
"Talk about what?" Then you say, "I'll tell you when you when we sit
down." After this, just start making conversation. Also, if she
doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say,
"Can I talk to you for a little while?"
So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of
your whole night and whether you're going to become intimate with a
woman or not. What I can't figure out is these men that dance with a
woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and
when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to
say, you don't meet any women this way.
So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't
hesitate; just proceed immediately with determination that you're
going to make contact with this woman.
How to Pick Up Single Women Using Teddy Bears
This is a unique way to meet, attract, and pick up single women using
what I call the, "Teddy Bear Method." This involves bringing a small
teddy bear with you to bars and nightclubs. You can buy these little
teddy bears at any toy store.
All you have to do is set it on your table and it will attract women's
curiosity. I guarantee it! They will approach you and ask, "Who's
the teddy bear for?" You will reply, "I'm giving it to the first lady
who will meet me for lunch or dinner. Would you be interested?"
Try this method and eventually some attractive single woman will take
you up on meeting for lunch or dinner and she will get the teddy bear
as a gift from you. She will admire you, too, for your unique
approach in getting a lunch or dinner date with her.
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