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Dating Advice on online dating.
You don't need a fairy godmother, travel in a magic pumpkin coach or wear Cinderella's glass shoes to enjoy the joys of dating with the person you like. Our dating guide covers everything from getting dates, asking for the date to what to talk during the date and how to end the date. Don't worry. If you stayed one moment longer than midnight, your magic coach would not be a pumpkin again, your horses will not turn to mice, your coachman will not become a rat, your footmen will not turn back to lizards, and your clothes won't become just as they were before. Go, have your fun.We will take care of the mice, rat and lizards. You take care of your clothes Asking For The Date |
Asking For The Date
There's nothing really complicated about asking for a date. Ideally, you should ask someone in person so that he or she won't have any difficulty in "placing" you, but telephoning is perfectly acceptable, too.It is best, however, to have gotten to know the person you are asking through previous
conversation before suddenly springing a request for a date. Those conversations give you a chance to ascertain your compatibility with each other.
If you call, mention the last conversation the two of you had together and how much you enjoyed it. You might also mention the setting and some of the topics you discussed to help jog the other's memory. Then simply say something like, "I was wondering if you would like to go with me to the
(movie, dance, etc.) on Saturday night?" If you are worried about your mind going completely blank when you make the call, the authors of
How to Date With Confidence, Barbara Siegel and Scott Siegel, recommend that you simply make a list of things you want to say before you call. Not a word-for-word speech, of course. Just a few words to jog your memory. (No one can see you looking at your notes on the phone!) If the other person should decline, don't take it too personally. Perhaps they feel they don't know you well enough. If this is the case, try to become better acquainted before you ask again.In the event that the person you call declines, simply say something like, "Well, maybe another time." and let it go at that. Don't try to change the person's mind. You will only make a nuisance of yourself. Besides, there is always another time.A general rule of thumb is to ask the same person for a date three times. If she says she is busy each time, you can assume that she doesn't wish to go out with you. Ask another person. And another. Eventually, you will find one who is right for you.If someone you like calls you for a date, and you are available for the time requested, you have it made. But what if you aren't available? Or, what if you aren't interested in the person who called?
There's nothing really complicated about asking for a date. Ideally, you should ask someone in person so that he or she won't have any difficulty in "placing" you, but telephoning is perfectly acceptable, too.It is best, however, to have gotten to know the person you are asking through previous
conversation before suddenly springing a request for a date. Those conversations give you a chance to ascertain your compatibility with each other.
If you call, mention the last conversation the two of you had together and how much you enjoyed it. You might also mention the setting and some of the topics you discussed to help jog the other's memory. Then simply say something like, "I was wondering if you would like to go with me to the
(movie, dance, etc.) on Saturday night?" If you are worried about your mind going completely blank when you make the call, the authors of
How to Date With Confidence, Barbara Siegel and Scott Siegel, recommend that you simply make a list of things you want to say before you call. Not a word-for-word speech, of course. Just a few words to jog your memory. (No one can see you looking at your notes on the phone!) If the other person should decline, don't take it too personally. Perhaps they feel they don't know you well enough. If this is the case, try to become better acquainted before you ask again.In the event that the person you call declines, simply say something like, "Well, maybe another time." and let it go at that. Don't try to change the person's mind. You will only make a nuisance of yourself. Besides, there is always another time.A general rule of thumb is to ask the same person for a date three times. If she says she is busy each time, you can assume that she doesn't wish to go out with you. Ask another person. And another. Eventually, you will find one who is right for you.If someone you like calls you for a date, and you are available for the time requested, you have it made. But what if you aren't available? Or, what if you aren't interested in the person who called?
What should you do then?
If you are interested but aren't available, you should say something like. "Oh, I'm sorry. I promised I'd take my brother to band practice that night. Would you give me a rain check? Thus,you express your disappointment, tell the caller the reason you can't make it for the date, and
request to reschedule it for another time. The best thing to do is to suggest setting another date,time and event on the spot.If the caller says he or she will look for another event to take you to, but doesn't get down to specifics at that moment, it's a good idea to say how much you appreciated their call the next time you see them, and how much you regret having had to refuse. Chances are, they'll think of you again.But what if you really aren't interested in going out with the person who calls? You want to turn the caller down gently, and yet you want to close the door to future calls as well.
The best way to do this, say Barbara and Scott, is to say something like "I'm kind of involved with somebody else right now" or "I've just gone back to my old boyfriend." This way, the caller doesn't see it as a rejection of him or her personally, but just that you happen to be committed to someone and unavailable to anyone else. Few people will take offense to this kind of a gentle turning-down.How To Ask A Woman Out On A Date
There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is,
If you are interested but aren't available, you should say something like. "Oh, I'm sorry. I promised I'd take my brother to band practice that night. Would you give me a rain check? Thus,you express your disappointment, tell the caller the reason you can't make it for the date, and
request to reschedule it for another time. The best thing to do is to suggest setting another date,time and event on the spot.If the caller says he or she will look for another event to take you to, but doesn't get down to specifics at that moment, it's a good idea to say how much you appreciated their call the next time you see them, and how much you regret having had to refuse. Chances are, they'll think of you again.But what if you really aren't interested in going out with the person who calls? You want to turn the caller down gently, and yet you want to close the door to future calls as well.
The best way to do this, say Barbara and Scott, is to say something like "I'm kind of involved with somebody else right now" or "I've just gone back to my old boyfriend." This way, the caller doesn't see it as a rejection of him or her personally, but just that you happen to be committed to someone and unavailable to anyone else. Few people will take offense to this kind of a gentle turning-down.How To Ask A Woman Out On A Date
There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is,
"Would you like to go out with me?"
By saying this:
You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
You imply a formal date.
You are making a move on her.
By saying this:
You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
You imply a formal date.
You are making a move on her.
The pressure is on her.If she says "no," you are never sure whether to ask her again for another time. Was it, "No, I don't want to go out with you," or "No, I want to go out with you but I'm busy that night." You literally sound like a junior high kid asking a girl out on his first date.The right way to ask a single girl out is, "Let's get together and do something sometime." Memorize these words. By saying this, you give an impression of a casual meeting. No big deal.Friends getting to know each other. Not a formal date. If you say this, her response will let you know whether she wants to date you or not.If she is interested, she will respond in the positive, but also her tone will be positive. The expression on her face will be positive. She may even lead the conversation to making a specific time to do something.If you do get a positive response, you can either pursue the conversation and arrange to meet on a casual date or leave it until the next time you meet. You know she wants to get together and she will be waiting, now that you have teased her with talk of a date but offered no specific plans.You are being elusive and playing hard to get. Her anticipation works in your favor.
If she does not want to go out with you, her verbal response may be "no" or it may even be "yes" to save your feelings, but her tone, her facial expression, and her desire to drop the subject will let you know she is not interested. Don't pursue it further.The beauty of this exact phrase is:
You are not set up for rejection. After all, you have not really asked her out. You've made a statement.You are throwing out an offer. The implication is that you are doing her a favor. She is not doing you a favor by going out with you.It implies a casual get-together to get to know each other, not a formal date.You know for sure whether she wants to date you or not.You aren't asking her. You are making a statement which says something about you. You are the type of person that likes to do things with friends, and of course she would like to participate. After all, there is no pressure. You are a confident, friendly, fun-loving person who is doing things. Now reread that phrase.
"Let's get together and do something sometime."
See how much better it is than asking a question that may get you a wrong answer?
If she does not want to go out with you, her verbal response may be "no" or it may even be "yes" to save your feelings, but her tone, her facial expression, and her desire to drop the subject will let you know she is not interested. Don't pursue it further.The beauty of this exact phrase is:
You are not set up for rejection. After all, you have not really asked her out. You've made a statement.You are throwing out an offer. The implication is that you are doing her a favor. She is not doing you a favor by going out with you.It implies a casual get-together to get to know each other, not a formal date.You know for sure whether she wants to date you or not.You aren't asking her. You are making a statement which says something about you. You are the type of person that likes to do things with friends, and of course she would like to participate. After all, there is no pressure. You are a confident, friendly, fun-loving person who is doing things. Now reread that phrase.
"Let's get together and do something sometime."
See how much better it is than asking a question that may get you a wrong answer?
Ideas For Your First Date
· Go out for dinner then a movie. Having dinner together lets you get to know them better
while watching the movie together provides the perfect atmosphere to just get used to
them without having to talk too much.
· Go out to eat, sit and talk and give a small kiss goodnight.
· Have a picnic at a lake under the moonlight.
· Walk along the beach at night.
· Have dinner, watch a movie and end the night by playing video games at a local arcade
together.
· Holding hands while walking in the park, getting to know each other.
· Go out to eat, watch a movie, have a moonlight walk on the beach ending the evening
with the perfect kiss.
· Go out to dinner then spend time together at a coffee shop getting to know each other.
· Getting to know each other in the back of a truck on a back road under a starry sky.
· Laying by the fireplace with romantic music and candlelight getting to know each other.
· Go out dancing together.
· Have a candlelight dinner, dance under the stars followed by a romantic stroll.
· Go out for dinner then a movie. Having dinner together lets you get to know them better
while watching the movie together provides the perfect atmosphere to just get used to
them without having to talk too much.
· Go out to eat, sit and talk and give a small kiss goodnight.
· Have a picnic at a lake under the moonlight.
· Walk along the beach at night.
· Have dinner, watch a movie and end the night by playing video games at a local arcade
together.
· Holding hands while walking in the park, getting to know each other.
· Go out to eat, watch a movie, have a moonlight walk on the beach ending the evening
with the perfect kiss.
· Go out to dinner then spend time together at a coffee shop getting to know each other.
· Getting to know each other in the back of a truck on a back road under a starry sky.
· Laying by the fireplace with romantic music and candlelight getting to know each other.
· Go out dancing together.
· Have a candlelight dinner, dance under the stars followed by a romantic stroll.
Top 10 Places To Take Single Women On A First Date.
If you really want to impress single women on a first date and make her fall for you, take her on a
unique date she will never forget.
By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will
want to be with you again and again.
Just keep taking a single woman you're attracted to on one fun and creative date after another
and she's bound to fall for you and want to make mad passionate love to you.
Here's a gold mine of creative dating ideas for taking women on a first date that will make a
lasting impression make them crave to be with you:
Amusement Parks
This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller
coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.
Dinner at Your Place
One of my favorite things to do is to invite a date over for a candlelight steak dinner and
champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel
special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this
for a very special date.
Dinner Theater
There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed
and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.
Kite Flying
Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or
any wide open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of
romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.
Moonlight Strolls
When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take
your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.
Romantic Restaurants
If you really want to make a good impression on your date, take her to a cozy and romantic
restaurant. It's even better if they have a piano bar or live entertainment or soft music, dim
lighting, roaring fireplaces, scenic views while you're eating, etc. So, spice up your love-life or
impress a date by going to a romantic restaurant.
Theater (Live)
Most larger towns offer live theater performances that can be just as good as a Broadway play in
New York City. Attending live theater on a date ranks at the top of the list for things to do on a
date in my opinion.
Zoo
A popular and enjoyable way to spend the day on a date.
Picnics
This is tops on my list for first dates. Just bring a bottle of wine, cheese and crackers, or even
better just pick up some fried chicken and potato salad. Don't forget the blanket and radio!
Cruises
If there are any cruises in your area (riverboat, dinner cruises, yacht cruises, gambling cruises,
sunset cruises, or just any kind of cruise) don't pass up this opportunity for one of the best ways
to impress single women on a first date.
Etiquette Of Dating
Etiquette is a voluminous subject. There are many good books on etiquette, as well as the
etiquette of dating in specific. A few pointers are in order here, however.
The rules of etiquette in dating have changed somewhat in recent years. However, since the male
usually still does the driving, he should open the car door for his date. This is a little nicety that
contributes much to the overall atmosphere during the date. When the two arrive at their
destination, he should open the door for his date again.
When the evening is over, the man should see the lady to the door. It is not enough to simply
drive up to her house and open the car door for her. He should walk her up to the door of her
home and see that she is safely inside before he leaves. This gives the lady the feeling of being
protected.
Further, the man should hold open the doors of restaurants and other establishments for the lady
as well as help her with her chair when she is seated, unless she shows a desire to do these
things for herself.
"Should I kiss on the first date?" You didn't think I would skip over this question, did you? The
answer is no. The most mistaken idea among young people is that a goodnight kiss is mandatory.
When reduced to such a common level, the kiss loses all depth of meaning. The guy is
requesting a privilege he has not earned. The lady is indicating that her kisses are not worth
much. The kiss should be an indication of a special bond between two people.
When is a kiss appropriate? Not sooner than the second date, maybe later. It will mean so much
more if it is not given out too freely. Am I old-fashioned on this subject? Maybe so. But maybe a
little "old-fashionedness" is a good thing now and then.
How does a guy know when to kiss a girl good night? He can tell by how much affection she has
shown during a dating relationship. She has liked holding hands, she sat a bit closer, she put her
head on his shoulder, she lingers at the door trying to think of something to say...then she is
receptive to a kiss. There is a feeling in the air that a kiss would be welcome.
Another question is whether it is it proper to have more than one boyfriend or girlfriend at the
same time. As far as the rules of etiquette go, it is perfectly acceptable to have more than one
dating partner.
However, as far as the laws of human nature go, little jealousies are bound to spring up if one
dating partner believes that the other is not really committed to him or her.
Generally, people date several different people concurrently until they find one person with whom
they feel they are truly compatible. After that, they usually devote themselves to that one
relationship, unless, of course, that relationship breaks up, at which point they start the whole
process over again).
What To Talk About On A Date?
But what do you talk about on a date? This is a natural concern for a lot of people. Most social
interactions are relatively short. But a date traditionally occupies an entire evening! What on earth
is the shy person going to talk about for all that time?
Fortunately, it's easier than you may think.
For one thing, a date is usually centered around some sort of activity, such as going to a dance or
to the movies. This solves most of your problems for you. During a movie, you don't have to talk
about anything, and afterwards, the movie itself serves as a topic of conversation. So the problem
of conversation becomes relatively simple.
Making your first date relatively short and centered around an activity of some sort will do a lot to
calm your nerves.
True, you still have to converse during the trip between home, the restaurant and the theater, as
well as during the meal itself. But if you master the techniques described on this site, none of this
need present a big problem.
Much of your conversation will be based upon you and your date's initial meeting. You already
know something about your date, so this makes conversation much easier; you simply base your
conversation on what you already know about him or her.
Use the techniques for building on previous conversations as explained elsewhere on this site.
(Remember, the more you know about another person, the easier conversation becomes.)
Ask about a project of the other person that came out during the previous conversation. Ask
about a problem he or she was trying to get resolved. If you've ascertained the other person's
interests, you can even do some reading up on them before the next date so that you can
impress your partner with your knowledge of his or her interests!
With this in mind, on the next page are some conversation-sparking questions for your date, most
of which you will probably only have touched on in your initial conversation with him or her that
can be used to get an engaging conversation going.
Questions To Keep The Conversation Going
· Have you ever been here (the restaurant or other setting the two of you are in) before?
(Discuss aspects of the facility such as food, amenities, and so forth.
· Do you live in (name of town or city)? How long have you lived in the area? How do you
like it here? (This can lead into a discussion of area politics and other local issues.)
· Have you visited the local (park, library, shopping center)? (Talk about the special
attractions of your town.)
· Did you grow up here? (If not), Where did you live before this? What was it like there?
How does this area compare with that one?
· Does the rest of your family live nearby? (Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles?)
· What do you like most about the area?
· What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your
favorite actor/actress?
· What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
· Did you catch the academy awards, (or that new show, or the game, etc.) last night?
· What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do
you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they still will be next year?
· What is your favorite type of reading matter? Who is your favorite author? What's the best
book you've read recently? Do you subscribe to magazines?
· Do you belong to any local clubs or organizations?
· Are you a morning person, or do you find yourself at your peak later in the day? (For
young people): What kind of career are you interested in? Or, "What are your career
goals?"
· What do you like to do in your spare time? Hobbies, interests...? How did you get
involved in your hobby? What do you like most about it?
This isn't nearly everything you and your date can talk about, of course. If you're young, school is
an excellent subject for conversation, and can provide an endless supply of topics (a list of
questions for students will be added to this site soon). If your date is employed, work can be a
good source for conversation. Here are some additional tips for keeping the conversation going:
Discuss events in the news
Maybe the other person isn't real up on current events. But there's an easy way to find out. When
the other person says something that reminds you of something you read or heard on the news,
use this natural tie-in and see if it gets a good reaction: (Speaking of politics, did you hear about
the new crime bill they're trying to put into law? If the other person isn't up on current events, he
or she may really be into celebrity news or pop culture. So, study up a bit on feature articles in
newspapers and magazines before you go on the next date.
Talk about the situation that brought you together
The friend who introduced you or the place where the two of you met is a perfectly natural topic of
conversation.
Talk about the present situation.
That salad looks delicious. What's in it?
Look at all the bicyclists out today! Do you enjoy riding yourself?
I'm really looking forward to that movie tonight. Have you caught any of Arnold Schwarzenegger's
previous films?
Raise hypothetical questions
These are the old standbys:
"If you had to spend a month in the hospital, what famous person would you most like to share
the same room with, and why?"
If you knew you would be stranded on a desert island, for a year, what three books would you
bring with you?
My Secret Service Dating Secrets
By PATTI DAVIS
No matter who wins the US presidential election, whether Al Gore or George W. Bush, there will
be at least one young, single First Daughter forced to navigate the treacherous waters of the
dating world while being closely followed by a merry band of Secret Service agents - usually
male, and impossible to ignore since they have those pesky earpieces dangling from their heads
and are always talking into their wrists. As if dating wasn't hard enough.
There are no how-to books available about how to deal with this situation, and I think even the
wisest sage would throw up his (or her) arms and say, "Beats me." So, I'm offering a few
suggestions. As someone who lived through this ordeal - notice, I didn't say survived it - I can at
least give the girls some insights and tips that may help preserve their sanity and prevent them
missing romance altogether.
Secret #1
Don't let on that you think any of the Secret Service agents are attractive. They'll be taken off your
detail before the clock strikes midnight. They're sensitive about that sort of thing. Jumpy, in fact.
Secret #2
Re tip No. 1, any guy you're dating will probably be jealous that you are being trailed by some
attractive men. There's really no way around this, but you might suggest he strike up a
conversation with them - ask about their sunglasses or their training. It's a male-bonding kind of
thing, and it sometimes works.
Secret #3
Don't tell them where you're going beforehand. They'll be really mad, but here's the reason: if, for
example, you say, "I'm going to dinner at this particular restaurant tonight," they'll "advance" it.
This means, when you walk in, everyone will be staring. I mean everyone. The cooks, the waiters,
the dishwashers. The kitchen will get backed up, orders will be slow and the customers will blame
you. Not to mention that your date will hate the scrutiny.
Secret #4
Tip No. 3 applies even more to movies. Wait until the last minute. Be spontaneous. That way the
agents might not even get a seat; they'll have to stand in the back. There's nothing more
distracting than men with guns sitting right behind you munching popcorn.
Secret #5
There actually are some advantages. You can do risky things like go white-water rafting,
backpacking at night, skydiving. You know, all those things you might have been afraid to do
before. Hey, they're there to protect you - why wait for a terrorist kidnap plot? Take advantage of
their skills and commitment. They'll probably appreciate the adventure.
Secret #6
You can ask them for a bonafide male opinion on how you look before you go on that really
important date. Just remember to not ask the cute ones. If the reason for this is unclear, please
refer back to tip No.1.
Secret #7
Don't expect them to intervene if a disgruntled ex-boyfriend spots you in public and insists on
talking to you. Unless your ex is wearing a mask, brandishing a weapon or acting like a druggedout
lunatic, you're just going to have to handle the situation yourself. Ex-boyfriends are not in the
Secret Service manual.
Secret #8
Explain to your date he should obey the speed limits. Not just for the obvious safety reasons, but
also because the agents have sirens in their cars. It's embarrassing to be pulled over by your own
Secret Service agents.
I hope these suggestions are helpful to whomever is placed in the strange situation of waking up
one day as America's new First Daughter.
I have just one more tip. If you end up getting married while your father is in office, get married in
the White House. I didn't, and several of my friends have never forgiven me.
Screenwriter Patti Davis is Ronald Reagan's daughter.
Funny Pick Up Lines
Think you've heard the worst or funniest pick up line ever? Then you'll love these!
Is your dad a thief or something? Because someone stole the stars and put them into your eyes!
I may not be Fred Flintstone but I can sure make your bed rock!
Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?
I lost my number, can I have yours?
Is your father a baker? Because those sure are some nice buns!
Call the police!! It has to be illegal to look that fine!
Is your father a terrorist? Because you're the bomb!
You: Excuse me can I borrow a quarter, it is an emergency?
Other: Yea sure, what's wrong?
You: My mom told me to give her a call the first time I fell in love.
If you were a Sprite, I'd obey my thirst!
Do you believe in love at first site, or should I walk past you again?
You: You look like my second wife!
Other: How many times have you been married?
You: Once!
If I told you you had a gorgeous body, would you hold it against me?"
If I followed you home, would you keep me?
Damn, I'm glad I'm not blind!
Go over to the person with a sugar packet and say, "Excuse me, I think you dropped your name
tag."
Are you an over due book? Because you've got FINE written all over you!
If you were a booger, I'd pick you.
Baby you must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night!
The body is made up of 90% water and I'm thirsty.
Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants.
I was once told that our souls had met, now only our hearts had to be introduced.
Is your name Gillette? Because you're the best a man can get!
I think I need to call heaven because they've lost one of their angels.
You dropped your smile; can I pick it up for you?
Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
If someone is wearing a shirt with writing on it, go up to them and ask them, "Can I read your shirt
in brail?"
Smile if you want to sleep with me!
You know what would look great on you? Me.
You must be the reason for global warming because you're hot.
Am I cute enough yet? Or do you need more to drink?
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
Are you sure that we haven't met somewhere in a past life?
I wish I were a tear so I could start in your eyes, live on your face, and die on your lips.
I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
Can I buy you a drink - or would you just prefer the five bucks?
You: What are you doing around Easter??
Other: WHY?
You: I might want to hop around.
Can I have directions to your heart?
Excuse me, but I'm new in town, can I have directions to your place?
When God made you he had to have broken the mold because I have never seen anything as
beautiful as you.
I've heard sex is a killer, wanna die happy?
If you really want to impress single women on a first date and make her fall for you, take her on a
unique date she will never forget.
By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will
want to be with you again and again.
Just keep taking a single woman you're attracted to on one fun and creative date after another
and she's bound to fall for you and want to make mad passionate love to you.
Here's a gold mine of creative dating ideas for taking women on a first date that will make a
lasting impression make them crave to be with you:
Amusement Parks
This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller
coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.
Dinner at Your Place
One of my favorite things to do is to invite a date over for a candlelight steak dinner and
champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel
special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this
for a very special date.
Dinner Theater
There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed
and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.
Kite Flying
Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or
any wide open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of
romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.
Moonlight Strolls
When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take
your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.
Romantic Restaurants
If you really want to make a good impression on your date, take her to a cozy and romantic
restaurant. It's even better if they have a piano bar or live entertainment or soft music, dim
lighting, roaring fireplaces, scenic views while you're eating, etc. So, spice up your love-life or
impress a date by going to a romantic restaurant.
Theater (Live)
Most larger towns offer live theater performances that can be just as good as a Broadway play in
New York City. Attending live theater on a date ranks at the top of the list for things to do on a
date in my opinion.
Zoo
A popular and enjoyable way to spend the day on a date.
Picnics
This is tops on my list for first dates. Just bring a bottle of wine, cheese and crackers, or even
better just pick up some fried chicken and potato salad. Don't forget the blanket and radio!
Cruises
If there are any cruises in your area (riverboat, dinner cruises, yacht cruises, gambling cruises,
sunset cruises, or just any kind of cruise) don't pass up this opportunity for one of the best ways
to impress single women on a first date.
Etiquette Of Dating
Etiquette is a voluminous subject. There are many good books on etiquette, as well as the
etiquette of dating in specific. A few pointers are in order here, however.
The rules of etiquette in dating have changed somewhat in recent years. However, since the male
usually still does the driving, he should open the car door for his date. This is a little nicety that
contributes much to the overall atmosphere during the date. When the two arrive at their
destination, he should open the door for his date again.
When the evening is over, the man should see the lady to the door. It is not enough to simply
drive up to her house and open the car door for her. He should walk her up to the door of her
home and see that she is safely inside before he leaves. This gives the lady the feeling of being
protected.
Further, the man should hold open the doors of restaurants and other establishments for the lady
as well as help her with her chair when she is seated, unless she shows a desire to do these
things for herself.
"Should I kiss on the first date?" You didn't think I would skip over this question, did you? The
answer is no. The most mistaken idea among young people is that a goodnight kiss is mandatory.
When reduced to such a common level, the kiss loses all depth of meaning. The guy is
requesting a privilege he has not earned. The lady is indicating that her kisses are not worth
much. The kiss should be an indication of a special bond between two people.
When is a kiss appropriate? Not sooner than the second date, maybe later. It will mean so much
more if it is not given out too freely. Am I old-fashioned on this subject? Maybe so. But maybe a
little "old-fashionedness" is a good thing now and then.
How does a guy know when to kiss a girl good night? He can tell by how much affection she has
shown during a dating relationship. She has liked holding hands, she sat a bit closer, she put her
head on his shoulder, she lingers at the door trying to think of something to say...then she is
receptive to a kiss. There is a feeling in the air that a kiss would be welcome.
Another question is whether it is it proper to have more than one boyfriend or girlfriend at the
same time. As far as the rules of etiquette go, it is perfectly acceptable to have more than one
dating partner.
However, as far as the laws of human nature go, little jealousies are bound to spring up if one
dating partner believes that the other is not really committed to him or her.
Generally, people date several different people concurrently until they find one person with whom
they feel they are truly compatible. After that, they usually devote themselves to that one
relationship, unless, of course, that relationship breaks up, at which point they start the whole
process over again).
What To Talk About On A Date?
But what do you talk about on a date? This is a natural concern for a lot of people. Most social
interactions are relatively short. But a date traditionally occupies an entire evening! What on earth
is the shy person going to talk about for all that time?
Fortunately, it's easier than you may think.
For one thing, a date is usually centered around some sort of activity, such as going to a dance or
to the movies. This solves most of your problems for you. During a movie, you don't have to talk
about anything, and afterwards, the movie itself serves as a topic of conversation. So the problem
of conversation becomes relatively simple.
Making your first date relatively short and centered around an activity of some sort will do a lot to
calm your nerves.
True, you still have to converse during the trip between home, the restaurant and the theater, as
well as during the meal itself. But if you master the techniques described on this site, none of this
need present a big problem.
Much of your conversation will be based upon you and your date's initial meeting. You already
know something about your date, so this makes conversation much easier; you simply base your
conversation on what you already know about him or her.
Use the techniques for building on previous conversations as explained elsewhere on this site.
(Remember, the more you know about another person, the easier conversation becomes.)
Ask about a project of the other person that came out during the previous conversation. Ask
about a problem he or she was trying to get resolved. If you've ascertained the other person's
interests, you can even do some reading up on them before the next date so that you can
impress your partner with your knowledge of his or her interests!
With this in mind, on the next page are some conversation-sparking questions for your date, most
of which you will probably only have touched on in your initial conversation with him or her that
can be used to get an engaging conversation going.
Questions To Keep The Conversation Going
· Have you ever been here (the restaurant or other setting the two of you are in) before?
(Discuss aspects of the facility such as food, amenities, and so forth.
· Do you live in (name of town or city)? How long have you lived in the area? How do you
like it here? (This can lead into a discussion of area politics and other local issues.)
· Have you visited the local (park, library, shopping center)? (Talk about the special
attractions of your town.)
· Did you grow up here? (If not), Where did you live before this? What was it like there?
How does this area compare with that one?
· Does the rest of your family live nearby? (Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles?)
· What do you like most about the area?
· What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your
favorite actor/actress?
· What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
· Did you catch the academy awards, (or that new show, or the game, etc.) last night?
· What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do
you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they still will be next year?
· What is your favorite type of reading matter? Who is your favorite author? What's the best
book you've read recently? Do you subscribe to magazines?
· Do you belong to any local clubs or organizations?
· Are you a morning person, or do you find yourself at your peak later in the day? (For
young people): What kind of career are you interested in? Or, "What are your career
goals?"
· What do you like to do in your spare time? Hobbies, interests...? How did you get
involved in your hobby? What do you like most about it?
This isn't nearly everything you and your date can talk about, of course. If you're young, school is
an excellent subject for conversation, and can provide an endless supply of topics (a list of
questions for students will be added to this site soon). If your date is employed, work can be a
good source for conversation. Here are some additional tips for keeping the conversation going:
Discuss events in the news
Maybe the other person isn't real up on current events. But there's an easy way to find out. When
the other person says something that reminds you of something you read or heard on the news,
use this natural tie-in and see if it gets a good reaction: (Speaking of politics, did you hear about
the new crime bill they're trying to put into law? If the other person isn't up on current events, he
or she may really be into celebrity news or pop culture. So, study up a bit on feature articles in
newspapers and magazines before you go on the next date.
Talk about the situation that brought you together
The friend who introduced you or the place where the two of you met is a perfectly natural topic of
conversation.
Talk about the present situation.
That salad looks delicious. What's in it?
Look at all the bicyclists out today! Do you enjoy riding yourself?
I'm really looking forward to that movie tonight. Have you caught any of Arnold Schwarzenegger's
previous films?
Raise hypothetical questions
These are the old standbys:
"If you had to spend a month in the hospital, what famous person would you most like to share
the same room with, and why?"
If you knew you would be stranded on a desert island, for a year, what three books would you
bring with you?
My Secret Service Dating Secrets
By PATTI DAVIS
No matter who wins the US presidential election, whether Al Gore or George W. Bush, there will
be at least one young, single First Daughter forced to navigate the treacherous waters of the
dating world while being closely followed by a merry band of Secret Service agents - usually
male, and impossible to ignore since they have those pesky earpieces dangling from their heads
and are always talking into their wrists. As if dating wasn't hard enough.
There are no how-to books available about how to deal with this situation, and I think even the
wisest sage would throw up his (or her) arms and say, "Beats me." So, I'm offering a few
suggestions. As someone who lived through this ordeal - notice, I didn't say survived it - I can at
least give the girls some insights and tips that may help preserve their sanity and prevent them
missing romance altogether.
Secret #1
Don't let on that you think any of the Secret Service agents are attractive. They'll be taken off your
detail before the clock strikes midnight. They're sensitive about that sort of thing. Jumpy, in fact.
Secret #2
Re tip No. 1, any guy you're dating will probably be jealous that you are being trailed by some
attractive men. There's really no way around this, but you might suggest he strike up a
conversation with them - ask about their sunglasses or their training. It's a male-bonding kind of
thing, and it sometimes works.
Secret #3
Don't tell them where you're going beforehand. They'll be really mad, but here's the reason: if, for
example, you say, "I'm going to dinner at this particular restaurant tonight," they'll "advance" it.
This means, when you walk in, everyone will be staring. I mean everyone. The cooks, the waiters,
the dishwashers. The kitchen will get backed up, orders will be slow and the customers will blame
you. Not to mention that your date will hate the scrutiny.
Secret #4
Tip No. 3 applies even more to movies. Wait until the last minute. Be spontaneous. That way the
agents might not even get a seat; they'll have to stand in the back. There's nothing more
distracting than men with guns sitting right behind you munching popcorn.
Secret #5
There actually are some advantages. You can do risky things like go white-water rafting,
backpacking at night, skydiving. You know, all those things you might have been afraid to do
before. Hey, they're there to protect you - why wait for a terrorist kidnap plot? Take advantage of
their skills and commitment. They'll probably appreciate the adventure.
Secret #6
You can ask them for a bonafide male opinion on how you look before you go on that really
important date. Just remember to not ask the cute ones. If the reason for this is unclear, please
refer back to tip No.1.
Secret #7
Don't expect them to intervene if a disgruntled ex-boyfriend spots you in public and insists on
talking to you. Unless your ex is wearing a mask, brandishing a weapon or acting like a druggedout
lunatic, you're just going to have to handle the situation yourself. Ex-boyfriends are not in the
Secret Service manual.
Secret #8
Explain to your date he should obey the speed limits. Not just for the obvious safety reasons, but
also because the agents have sirens in their cars. It's embarrassing to be pulled over by your own
Secret Service agents.
I hope these suggestions are helpful to whomever is placed in the strange situation of waking up
one day as America's new First Daughter.
I have just one more tip. If you end up getting married while your father is in office, get married in
the White House. I didn't, and several of my friends have never forgiven me.
Screenwriter Patti Davis is Ronald Reagan's daughter.
Funny Pick Up Lines
Think you've heard the worst or funniest pick up line ever? Then you'll love these!
Is your dad a thief or something? Because someone stole the stars and put them into your eyes!
I may not be Fred Flintstone but I can sure make your bed rock!
Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?
I lost my number, can I have yours?
Is your father a baker? Because those sure are some nice buns!
Call the police!! It has to be illegal to look that fine!
Is your father a terrorist? Because you're the bomb!
You: Excuse me can I borrow a quarter, it is an emergency?
Other: Yea sure, what's wrong?
You: My mom told me to give her a call the first time I fell in love.
If you were a Sprite, I'd obey my thirst!
Do you believe in love at first site, or should I walk past you again?
You: You look like my second wife!
Other: How many times have you been married?
You: Once!
If I told you you had a gorgeous body, would you hold it against me?"
If I followed you home, would you keep me?
Damn, I'm glad I'm not blind!
Go over to the person with a sugar packet and say, "Excuse me, I think you dropped your name
tag."
Are you an over due book? Because you've got FINE written all over you!
If you were a booger, I'd pick you.
Baby you must be tired because you've been running through my mind all night!
The body is made up of 90% water and I'm thirsty.
Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants.
I was once told that our souls had met, now only our hearts had to be introduced.
Is your name Gillette? Because you're the best a man can get!
I think I need to call heaven because they've lost one of their angels.
You dropped your smile; can I pick it up for you?
Do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
If someone is wearing a shirt with writing on it, go up to them and ask them, "Can I read your shirt
in brail?"
Smile if you want to sleep with me!
You know what would look great on you? Me.
You must be the reason for global warming because you're hot.
Am I cute enough yet? Or do you need more to drink?
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
Are you sure that we haven't met somewhere in a past life?
I wish I were a tear so I could start in your eyes, live on your face, and die on your lips.
I'm a thief, and I'm here to steal your heart.
Can I buy you a drink - or would you just prefer the five bucks?
You: What are you doing around Easter??
Other: WHY?
You: I might want to hop around.
Can I have directions to your heart?
Excuse me, but I'm new in town, can I have directions to your place?
When God made you he had to have broken the mold because I have never seen anything as
beautiful as you.
I've heard sex is a killer, wanna die happy?
Secrets Of Dating
You're at a party and you see a very squishy girl, then what do you do? Well, I have spent
countless hours of experimenting and researching to give you some help. As most people call me
Doctor Love, I now have an answer for everything. I have packaged my knowledge into ten easy
steps which guarantee instant success.
Always Make Eye Contact.
If she's staring at you, either you're a freak or she digs you (or she digs freaks). If she looks at
you and you're not a freak, look back. Her holding your gaze is a green light; looking away is a
yellow. If you're feeling lucky run the yellow light, but prepare for the consequences. Wait for
confirmation, if she looks back, the light is green and proceed without hesitation. She will refuse
to send any more vibes for fear of looking silly. Waiting too long reveals to her you are not a man
of action. Break the eye contact at this point, leaving her in suspense.
Always hit on the Most Beautiful.
Never look too desperate in these positions. Most guys are too intimidated by stunning, drop
dead gorgeous women and shy down to most opportunities of meeting them. Never go on and on
about their elegant appearance, but rather tell them how beautiful they are in the inside
(Embellishing always helps).
Never Let Rejection Stop You.
The adage, "The worst she can say is no," is a lie. The worst she can say, "Do you know why
you're single, it's because you're ugly." If this happens, chant, "It's not me. It's her," five times
under your breath, and try again with someone new.
Always Have a Complete Mastery of at Least Two Books.
Women love when a guy is intelligent and shows he cares about other things than beer, sports,
and cars. "That's precisely the tragedy of Gatsby's obsession with Daisy." You too can be a man
of letters or at least talk like one. Read two books carefully, until you can master all the questions
in the Coles Notes version. If perchance magazines come up needless to say, you've never read
this particular issue.
Never Talk Scary.
"I think this rash is spreading to other parts of my body." This will get you absolutely nowhere.
You might as well carry a bottle of Gold Bond around the room and see how far you get. Never
tell a girl, who you are trying to impress, about the stupid things you've done when you and your
friends got together, because women have a different sense of humor.
Always Joke.
This is the best way to keep your date smiling through the whole night, no matter how bad the
date is. It's good to show her you can be seriuos once in a while but girls love to laugh. So show
them how to have a good time.
Always Look Like You're Having the Best Time.
You and your friends should be smiling, teasing each other, laughing and cleary enjoying each
other's company. Obviously the scene is the easiest to create when you're actually enjoying
yourself, but if for some reason your not with your regular friends, you've got to fake it. Grin like
an idiot and do whatever you can to keep the conversation rolling.
Never go on Parade.
Don't be seen wandering around on your own with no clear purpose. Being spotted downgrades
you instantly from eligible bachelor to a lurking weirdo. Location is everything. A central location is
key in which you can see everything and everything can see you.
Never use a Pick-Up Line.
These are just plain stupid. Rather than using a cheesy pick-up line just walk up to her, smile and
introduce yourself.
Single Man's Astrological Guide To Single Women
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
She's aggressive with men, dynamic, hot-tempered, and very bossy. You must be very strongwilled
with this woman and don't let her boss you around. Don't be a wimp, this woman loves a
challenge.
She attracts men quiet easily and can discard them just as easily. Don't try to tie this woman
down, she likes her freedom and doesn't like to be smothered. They are very energetic and
aggressive in bed and reach orgasm very quickly. If you want some "hot" sex, this is the girl for
you.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
They don't call this the sign of the bull for nothing! This woman is bullheaded and she likes to get
her own way and can be very stubborn.
She's very down-to-earth and loves to take care of her man, so be sure and go along with letting
her mother you. Shower her with plants, flowers, and money. This woman is very sensual in bed
and likes to make love slowly. She can literally make love for hours! I hope you have a lot of
sexual stamina to keep up with her!
GEMINI (May 21 - June 21)
This woman is a big flirt, so if you're the jealous and possessive type this can cause problems.
She's very intelligent and the best way to her heart is through her mind. You must keep her mind
stimulated to keep her from getting bored with you.
She loves to travel, so take her for weekend getaways out-of-town. She loves to be stroked, so
be sure and give her a sensual massage. They love variety in their sex life, so be sure and try
different positions and make love in different settings (in front of the fireplace, in the bath tub or
shower, on the kitchen counter, in an open field, etc.).
CANCER (June 22 - July 22)
This woman will want to baby and take care of you. Let her do it, by all means, because its part of
her maternal instincts.
She's very emotional and romantic, so you can really capture this woman's heart by doing
anything romantic. She soaks up compliments like a sponge, so be sure to compliment her often.
She makes a good sex partner because she will do anything to please her man.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
This woman is very charming, has lots of sex appeal, and loves to party. She's a very social
person and loves to be on the go. If you're a couch potato, you're not the man for her.
Very passionate and affectionate and has lots of love to give to the right guy. Attracted to
unusual, dynamic men who are often a bit eccentric. You must be well-dressed and treat her like
royalty because she has a strong ego. She's a real tiger in bed and rules the bedroom.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Very intellectual and a bit cool and acts aloof. Very picky about men and you must meet her high
standards. Very critical nature.
Take it slow with this woman. It takes her awhile to warm up to you because of her cautious
nature. It's worth it in the end because once she's yours she's yours to keep. Very faithful and
devoted. Can be very exacting in bed and wants to follow a set routine. She wants everything to
be perfect.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 23)
This is one of the most beautiful signs in the Zodiac. She's very feminine and her good looks
attracts a lot of men.
She makes an ideal mate because she's so giving and loves peace and harmony. She's so sexy,
seductive, and charming. A very social creature and very romantic and sentimental. Be sure and
appeal to her romantic nature and she's all yours!
SCORPIO (October 24 - November 21)
This is a very intense and mysterious woman. She doesn't do anything halfhearted and when she
sets her sights on a man she will pursue him with relentless intensity. She may even scare you
away with her intensity, jealousy, and possessiveness.
She can be a very moody and emotional person. Don't get on the wrong side of this woman
because she can make a dangerous enemy and will stop at nothing to get even with you.
Very intense in bed and probably the best lover in the Zodiac.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
She's very independent and loves her freedom. If you try to pin her down and you're the jealous
and possessive type, you will scare this woman away.
She loves the outdoors and sports, so plan you're activities outside and play sports and attend
sporting events. She loves to travel, so take her places to capture her heart. Enjoy her while she's
around because her heart is known to wander. She doesn't like long-term commitments. You
must have a good sense of humor and be happy-go-lucky like her.
CAPRICORN - (December 22 - January 19)
This woman is very reserved in the beginning but once you have broken down her barriers, she
will love you with all her heart with lots of intensity. She's very ambitious and career-oriented.
Appeal to her by talking about making money and attaining goals.
Move slow with this woman. You must become her friend first before you can get her in the sack.
She's not into casual sex, so you must not be sexually aggressive with this woman.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Very intelligent and you must appeal to her mind. Can be very elusive and afraid of commitment.
There are a lot of bachelorettes born under this sign and they usually marry late in life.
She's a strong believer in friendship and will remain your friend even after you have broken up.
Keep in mind that they can be a little cold-natured, so if you're expecting a hot & sexy passionate
sex-goddess, then you may be disappointed.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
If you want a loving, devoted, affectionate, sympathetic woman to cater to you're every need, this
is the woman for you.
This woman need lots of affection and attention. The more romance you can give her the better!
She's got lots of love to give in return. She's very emotional and moody, so you will have to help
keep her balanced emotionally.
How To End A Date With Single Women
Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this
night for any love, sex, or romance, but you hang on 'till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a
million shot will come through.
Wrong!
Instead you alertly perceive that the evening is still going well and is positive, so you politely
explain that you have to go, assure her that you had a great time, and tell her you'll have to get
together again sometime. Take her home and say, "Good night."
Most men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough, they'll get the girl in bed for a hot
night of passion, sex, and romance. As the evening drags on, the mood of the date starts to drop
and the girl ends up having to announce it's time for her to go.
By ending the date before she does, you surprise her and set yourself apart from the other guys
she's dated. You imply that you are hard-to-get and not desperate. And believe me, if the girl is
interested in going to bed with you, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you.
So, if she hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at her own
game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.
countless hours of experimenting and researching to give you some help. As most people call me
Doctor Love, I now have an answer for everything. I have packaged my knowledge into ten easy
steps which guarantee instant success.
Always Make Eye Contact.
If she's staring at you, either you're a freak or she digs you (or she digs freaks). If she looks at
you and you're not a freak, look back. Her holding your gaze is a green light; looking away is a
yellow. If you're feeling lucky run the yellow light, but prepare for the consequences. Wait for
confirmation, if she looks back, the light is green and proceed without hesitation. She will refuse
to send any more vibes for fear of looking silly. Waiting too long reveals to her you are not a man
of action. Break the eye contact at this point, leaving her in suspense.
Always hit on the Most Beautiful.
Never look too desperate in these positions. Most guys are too intimidated by stunning, drop
dead gorgeous women and shy down to most opportunities of meeting them. Never go on and on
about their elegant appearance, but rather tell them how beautiful they are in the inside
(Embellishing always helps).
Never Let Rejection Stop You.
The adage, "The worst she can say is no," is a lie. The worst she can say, "Do you know why
you're single, it's because you're ugly." If this happens, chant, "It's not me. It's her," five times
under your breath, and try again with someone new.
Always Have a Complete Mastery of at Least Two Books.
Women love when a guy is intelligent and shows he cares about other things than beer, sports,
and cars. "That's precisely the tragedy of Gatsby's obsession with Daisy." You too can be a man
of letters or at least talk like one. Read two books carefully, until you can master all the questions
in the Coles Notes version. If perchance magazines come up needless to say, you've never read
this particular issue.
Never Talk Scary.
"I think this rash is spreading to other parts of my body." This will get you absolutely nowhere.
You might as well carry a bottle of Gold Bond around the room and see how far you get. Never
tell a girl, who you are trying to impress, about the stupid things you've done when you and your
friends got together, because women have a different sense of humor.
Always Joke.
This is the best way to keep your date smiling through the whole night, no matter how bad the
date is. It's good to show her you can be seriuos once in a while but girls love to laugh. So show
them how to have a good time.
Always Look Like You're Having the Best Time.
You and your friends should be smiling, teasing each other, laughing and cleary enjoying each
other's company. Obviously the scene is the easiest to create when you're actually enjoying
yourself, but if for some reason your not with your regular friends, you've got to fake it. Grin like
an idiot and do whatever you can to keep the conversation rolling.
Never go on Parade.
Don't be seen wandering around on your own with no clear purpose. Being spotted downgrades
you instantly from eligible bachelor to a lurking weirdo. Location is everything. A central location is
key in which you can see everything and everything can see you.
Never use a Pick-Up Line.
These are just plain stupid. Rather than using a cheesy pick-up line just walk up to her, smile and
introduce yourself.
Single Man's Astrological Guide To Single Women
ARIES (March 21 - April 19)
She's aggressive with men, dynamic, hot-tempered, and very bossy. You must be very strongwilled
with this woman and don't let her boss you around. Don't be a wimp, this woman loves a
challenge.
She attracts men quiet easily and can discard them just as easily. Don't try to tie this woman
down, she likes her freedom and doesn't like to be smothered. They are very energetic and
aggressive in bed and reach orgasm very quickly. If you want some "hot" sex, this is the girl for
you.
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20)
They don't call this the sign of the bull for nothing! This woman is bullheaded and she likes to get
her own way and can be very stubborn.
She's very down-to-earth and loves to take care of her man, so be sure and go along with letting
her mother you. Shower her with plants, flowers, and money. This woman is very sensual in bed
and likes to make love slowly. She can literally make love for hours! I hope you have a lot of
sexual stamina to keep up with her!
GEMINI (May 21 - June 21)
This woman is a big flirt, so if you're the jealous and possessive type this can cause problems.
She's very intelligent and the best way to her heart is through her mind. You must keep her mind
stimulated to keep her from getting bored with you.
She loves to travel, so take her for weekend getaways out-of-town. She loves to be stroked, so
be sure and give her a sensual massage. They love variety in their sex life, so be sure and try
different positions and make love in different settings (in front of the fireplace, in the bath tub or
shower, on the kitchen counter, in an open field, etc.).
CANCER (June 22 - July 22)
This woman will want to baby and take care of you. Let her do it, by all means, because its part of
her maternal instincts.
She's very emotional and romantic, so you can really capture this woman's heart by doing
anything romantic. She soaks up compliments like a sponge, so be sure to compliment her often.
She makes a good sex partner because she will do anything to please her man.
LEO (July 23 - August 22)
This woman is very charming, has lots of sex appeal, and loves to party. She's a very social
person and loves to be on the go. If you're a couch potato, you're not the man for her.
Very passionate and affectionate and has lots of love to give to the right guy. Attracted to
unusual, dynamic men who are often a bit eccentric. You must be well-dressed and treat her like
royalty because she has a strong ego. She's a real tiger in bed and rules the bedroom.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22)
Very intellectual and a bit cool and acts aloof. Very picky about men and you must meet her high
standards. Very critical nature.
Take it slow with this woman. It takes her awhile to warm up to you because of her cautious
nature. It's worth it in the end because once she's yours she's yours to keep. Very faithful and
devoted. Can be very exacting in bed and wants to follow a set routine. She wants everything to
be perfect.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 23)
This is one of the most beautiful signs in the Zodiac. She's very feminine and her good looks
attracts a lot of men.
She makes an ideal mate because she's so giving and loves peace and harmony. She's so sexy,
seductive, and charming. A very social creature and very romantic and sentimental. Be sure and
appeal to her romantic nature and she's all yours!
SCORPIO (October 24 - November 21)
This is a very intense and mysterious woman. She doesn't do anything halfhearted and when she
sets her sights on a man she will pursue him with relentless intensity. She may even scare you
away with her intensity, jealousy, and possessiveness.
She can be a very moody and emotional person. Don't get on the wrong side of this woman
because she can make a dangerous enemy and will stop at nothing to get even with you.
Very intense in bed and probably the best lover in the Zodiac.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 21)
She's very independent and loves her freedom. If you try to pin her down and you're the jealous
and possessive type, you will scare this woman away.
She loves the outdoors and sports, so plan you're activities outside and play sports and attend
sporting events. She loves to travel, so take her places to capture her heart. Enjoy her while she's
around because her heart is known to wander. She doesn't like long-term commitments. You
must have a good sense of humor and be happy-go-lucky like her.
CAPRICORN - (December 22 - January 19)
This woman is very reserved in the beginning but once you have broken down her barriers, she
will love you with all her heart with lots of intensity. She's very ambitious and career-oriented.
Appeal to her by talking about making money and attaining goals.
Move slow with this woman. You must become her friend first before you can get her in the sack.
She's not into casual sex, so you must not be sexually aggressive with this woman.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18)
Very intelligent and you must appeal to her mind. Can be very elusive and afraid of commitment.
There are a lot of bachelorettes born under this sign and they usually marry late in life.
She's a strong believer in friendship and will remain your friend even after you have broken up.
Keep in mind that they can be a little cold-natured, so if you're expecting a hot & sexy passionate
sex-goddess, then you may be disappointed.
PISCES (February 19 - March 20)
If you want a loving, devoted, affectionate, sympathetic woman to cater to you're every need, this
is the woman for you.
This woman need lots of affection and attention. The more romance you can give her the better!
She's got lots of love to give in return. She's very emotional and moody, so you will have to help
keep her balanced emotionally.
How To End A Date With Single Women
Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this
night for any love, sex, or romance, but you hang on 'till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a
million shot will come through.
Wrong!
Instead you alertly perceive that the evening is still going well and is positive, so you politely
explain that you have to go, assure her that you had a great time, and tell her you'll have to get
together again sometime. Take her home and say, "Good night."
Most men seem to think that if they prolong the date enough, they'll get the girl in bed for a hot
night of passion, sex, and romance. As the evening drags on, the mood of the date starts to drop
and the girl ends up having to announce it's time for her to go.
By ending the date before she does, you surprise her and set yourself apart from the other guys
she's dated. You imply that you are hard-to-get and not desperate. And believe me, if the girl is
interested in going to bed with you, you'll know it. She will make her interest known to you.
So, if she hasn't given you the signals, better for you to make your exit and beat her at her own
game. She'll be giving you the signals someday soon.
